Wow. Where to start. Alumni was really a strange experience full of varying extreme emotions. The most common was was a feeling of oddness. So don't be surprised if the words odd and strange are repeated dozens of times in this entry.
Even as my plane touched down in Des Moines, I was overcome with a very odd sensation. I felt the normality of arriving in Iowa, but also the strangeness that I hadn't been there in a year and a half. It felt familiar but at the same time very very different. This feeling was multiplied when I arrived on campus. I was so overwhelmed by the familiar and yet distinct feelings that were flooding me that it was almost too much for me. I don't really know how to describe it. Mostly it was a feeling of shock that I spent 4 years there, and yet could still feel so out of place and uncomfortable on campus.
Staying in the dorms was odd, because I felt very isolated solely on the fact that I was completely reliant on someone else to let me enter. That in itself was a strange feeling.
Seeing the people that I am not very close with was pretty much exactly how I expected, it was seeing the people that I was excited to see that was so strange. It felt awkward in a way. In addition, I felt like I didn't really have time to hang out with them and talk and find out how life is in the way that we used to be able to do. I think this was a mix of already having some idea of how our lives are going, having tons of planned activities that we were supposed to attend, and just the normality of not living in the same place and seeing each other on a regular basis anymore.
On the upside, I did meet some interesting older alums and that was really nice. I had some stimulating conversation with a couple of them that was quite unexpected.
I guess I came to some realizations because of this trip:
1) Despite not feeling like it on a regular basis, I am in a very different place in my life than a lot of my friends, especially students.
2) college life is really different (at least for me) than post college life.
3) I think I like post college life more, although I wouldn't mind the part of college life where you get to see your friends on a daily basis
4) I'm not quite sure how to relate to a lot of people anymore.
5) I really wish that Jimmy had been able to be there so that he could understand that part of my life and how it has shaped me.
6) Part of me wants to go back to college, but like I said before, I think it's really mostly the community aspect because the partying, raucous shenanigans thing is mostly not for me.
7) I'm glad that my life is relatively drama free, although drama still is entertaining as long as it's happening to other people
I also think that the fact that school was not in session was a big thing for me. I think it made the feel of campus very different and more isolating.
So yeah, it was a very interesting experience and I'm definitely glad I went. It wasn't however, the amazing weekend that I had imagined/hoped for.
Still, it was nice to see old friends and make new ones.